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Wedding Traditions

South Korea Wedding Traditions & Ceremonies

A researched guide to 10 traditional wedding ceremonies from 3 cultural traditions in South Korea.

Buddhist

Wedding day

Buddhist Wedding Ceremony((No widely recognized local name))

Optional

While not as common as traditional or Christian weddings, some Buddhist couples may have ceremonies involving sutra recitation, meditation, and symbolic thread tying.

Timing: Wedding DayWho takes part: Bride, Groom, Monk, Family

Key elements

  • Sutra recitation, meditation, red thread, offerings
Source: instagram.com

Christian (Protestant, Catholic)

Wedding day

Christian Wedding Ceremony((No specific local name))

Common

A Western-style ceremony often held in a church or wedding hall, featuring a white dress, tuxedo, vows, and religious blessings.

Timing: Wedding DayWho takes part: Bride, Groom, Officiant, Congregation

Key elements

  • White wedding gown, tuxedo, rings, Bible readings, hymns, prayers
Source: en.wikipedia.org

Korean (Confucian)

Pre-wedding

Euihon(의혼)

議婚
Mandatory

Families discuss marriage possibility, considering social status, personality, and compatibility.

Timing: Before formal engagementWho takes part: Bride's family, Groom's family

Key elements

  • Exchange of letters, fortuneteller consultation
Source: en.wikipedia.org

Naljja Seoljeong(날짜설정)

날짜設定
Mandatory

The groom's family sends the groom's birthdate (saju) to the bride's family for a fortuneteller to set the wedding date.

Timing: After Euihon, before NapchaeWho takes part: Groom's family, Bride's family, Fortuneteller

Key elements

  • Saju (birthdate) on paper, bamboo branches, red and blue thread, red and blue cloth
Source: en.wikipedia.org

Napchae(납채)

納采
Mandatory

The groom sends a wedding chest (ham) with marriage papers (honseo), cloths (chaedan), and other gifts to the bride's family.

Timing: After Naljja Seoljeong, before the wedding ceremonyWho takes part: Groom, Groom's family, Bride's family

Key elements

  • Ham (wedding chest), Honseo (marriage papers), Chaedan (red and blue cloths), Honsu (gifts)
Source: en.wikipedia.org

Wedding day

Gyobaerye(교배례)

交拜禮
Mandatory

The bride and groom bow to each other, symbolizing their commitment and respect.

Timing: During the main wedding ceremonyWho takes part: Bride, Groom, Attendants

Key elements

  • Bowing, rugs for bowing
Source: brides.com

Hapgeunrye(합근례)

合巹禮
Mandatory

The bride and groom share wine from a gourd cup, symbolizing their union as one entity.

Timing: During the main wedding ceremonyWho takes part: Bride, Groom

Key elements

  • Gourd cup, wine (jung jong)
Source: brides.com

Honrye(혼례)

婚禮
Mandatory

The traditional wedding ceremony, historically held at the bride's home, involving formal attire and symbolic elements.

Timing: Wedding DayWho takes part: Bride, Groom, Attendants, Families

Key elements

  • Formal court costumes (hanbok), hand lanterns, wedding geese/Mandarin ducks
Source: en.wikipedia.org

Jeonanrye(전안례)

奠鴈禮
Mandatory

The groom presents a wild goose (or wooden duck) to his mother-in-law as a symbol of lifelong commitment and loyalty.

Timing: Beginning of the wedding ceremonyWho takes part: Groom, Mother-in-law

Key elements

  • Wild goose or wooden duck (won-ang seteu), bowing
Source: brides.com

Post-wedding

Pyebaek(폐백)

幣帛
Mandatory

An intimate ceremony where the newlyweds pay respect to the groom's (and now bride's) family elders, receiving blessings and advice.

Timing: After main wedding ceremony, often during receptionWho takes part: Bride, Groom, Parents, Grandparents, close relatives

Key elements

  • Hanbok, tea/rice wine, dates, chestnuts, money envelopes, bowing
Source: brides.com

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