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Wedding Traditions

Spain Wedding Traditions & Ceremonies

A researched guide to 16 traditional wedding ceremonies from 7 cultural traditions in Spain.

Catholic / Spanish

Wedding day

Las Arras Matrimoniales

Mandatory

Thirteen coins exchanged by the couple, symbolizing shared prosperity and commitment.

Timing: During the wedding ceremonyWho takes part: Bride, Groom, Priest, Padrinos

Key elements

  • 13 gold/silver coins, often in an ornate box/pouch
Source: crystalevents.eu

Lace Mantilla Veil(Mantilla)

Common

An intricate lace veil traditionally worn by Spanish brides, often passed down through generations.

Timing: Wedding ceremonyWho takes part: Bride

Key elements

  • Intricate lace veil, often white or cream
Source: orangeblossomspecialevents.com

Padrinos

Common

Godparents (usually parents) who accompany the couple and act as witnesses and advisors.

Timing: Throughout the wedding dayWho takes part: Bride's father, Groom's mother (traditionally); chosen family members/friends (modern)

Key elements

  • Guidance, emotional support, signing as witnesses
Source: donquijote.org

Bride Wears Black(Vestido Negro de Novia)

Optional

Traditionally, the bride wears a black silk dress to signify commitment until death.

Timing: Wedding ceremonyWho takes part: Bride

Key elements

  • Black silk dress, often with a mantilla veil
Source: orangeblossomspecialevents.com

Islamic / Arab

Pre-wedding

Henna Night(Noche de Henna / Mehndi)

حناء
Common

An intimate, feminine event where intricate henna designs are applied to the bride's hands and feet.

Timing: One or two days before the weddingWho takes part: Bride, female family members and friends

Key elements

  • Henna paste, intricate designs, music, dancing, festive atmosphere
Source: mynaturalwedding.com

Wedding day

Nikah

نكاح
Mandatory

The Islamic marriage contract, formalizing the union before witnesses.

Timing: Can be a few days before or on the wedding dayWho takes part: Bride, Groom, Imam, Witnesses

Key elements

  • Mutual consent, Mahr (dowry), two Muslim witnesses, marriage contract
Source: islamicwallartstore.com

Post-wedding

Walima

وليمة
Mandatory

A reception hosted by the groom's family to celebrate the marriage and announce it to the community.

Timing: After the Nikah ceremonyWho takes part: Newlyweds, guests

Key elements

  • Grand meal (often regional delicacies), speeches, prayers, cultural performances
Source: islamicwallartstore.com

Islamic / Arab (especially Moroccan)

Reception

Traditional Attire Changes(Cambios de Atuendo Tradicional)

Common

The bride changes into multiple traditional caftans or dresses, representing different regions or styles.

Timing: During the wedding receptionWho takes part: Bride

Key elements

  • Multiple elaborate traditional dresses (e.g., caftans)
Source: mynaturalwedding.com

Jewish

Reception

Hora

הורה
Common

A lively traditional Jewish dance where guests lift the bride and groom on chairs.

Timing: Wedding receptionWho takes part: Newlyweds, guests

Key elements

  • Energetic circle dance, chairs, music
Source: smashingtheglass.com

Jewish / Sephardic

Pre-wedding

Ketubah

כתובה
Mandatory

A Jewish marriage contract outlining the groom's obligations to his bride, signed before the ceremony.

Timing: Before or during the wedding ceremonyWho takes part: Bride, Groom, Witnesses, Rabbi

Key elements

  • Ornate document, legal and spiritual agreement
Source: reformjudaism.org

Secular / Spanish

Wedding day

Civil Ceremony(Ceremonia Civil)

Mandatory

The legal formalization of marriage, often followed by a personalized celebration.

Timing: Wedding dayWho takes part: Bride, Groom, Officiant, Witnesses

Key elements

  • Exchange of vows, signing of legal documents
Source: donquijote.org

Reception

Wedding Reception (Civil)(Convite / Banquete de Bodas)

Common

A celebratory gathering after the civil ceremony, often including food, music, and dancing.

Timing: After the civil ceremonyWho takes part: Newlyweds, family, friends

Key elements

  • Food (e.g., paella), drinks, music, dancing, speeches, wedding favors
Source: donquijote.org

Spanish

Wedding day

Orange Blossoms(Azahar)

Common

Orange blossoms symbolize joy, happiness, and fertility for the newlyweds.

Timing: Decorations, bridal bouquetWho takes part: Bride, guests

Key elements

  • Orange blossom flowers, bridal bouquet, venue decor
Source: orangeblossomspecialevents.com

Reception

Cutting up the Groom's Tie(Cortar la Corbata del Novio)

Common

The groom's friends cut his tie into pieces and sell them to guests to raise money for the couple.

Timing: Wedding receptionWho takes part: Groom, groom's friends, guests

Key elements

  • Groom's tie, scissors, money exchange
Source: donquijote.org

Paella and Seafood(Paella y Mariscos)

Common

Traditional Spanish dishes, especially paella, are commonly served at wedding receptions, symbolizing unity.

Timing: Wedding receptionWho takes part: Guests

Key elements

  • Large paella pans, various seafood, rice, vegetables
Source: orangeblossomspecialevents.com

Seguidillas Manchegas

Common

A traditional wedding dance where guests pay to dance with the bride, raising money for the couple.

Timing: Wedding receptionWho takes part: Bride, guests

Key elements

  • Traditional Spanish music, dancing, money exchange
Source: orangeblossomspecialevents.com

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