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Wedding Traditions

Saudi Arabia Wedding Traditions & Ceremonies

A researched guide to 12 traditional wedding ceremonies from 4 cultural traditions in Saudi Arabia.

Islamic/Arab

Pre-wedding

Fatiha

الفاتحة
Mandatory

Recitation of the opening verse of the Quran to bless the union and announce the engagement.

Timing: After family agreement on the proposal.Who takes part: Family elder or imam, both families.

Key elements

  • Quranic recitation.
Source: houseofsaud.com

Shabka and Mahr(Shabka / Mahr)

شبكة / مهر
Mandatory

Groom presents the bride with jewelry (Shabka) and a monetary gift (Mahr) as a symbol of commitment and financial security.

Timing: After Shoufah, before Katb Al-Kitab.Who takes part: Groom, bride, families.

Key elements

  • Gold jewelry (engagement ring), monetary dowry.
Source: houseofsaud.com

Shoufah

شوفة
Mandatory

A chaperoned meeting where the couple sees each other, sometimes for the first time, to ensure mutual consent.

Timing: After Fatiha, before further commitments.Who takes part: Couple, chaperones (families).

Key elements

  • Brief, supervised encounter.
Source: houseofsaud.com

Talab Al-Arousa

طلب العروسة
Mandatory

Formal request by the groom's family for the bride's hand in marriage.

Timing: Initial stage of the wedding process.Who takes part: Groom, groom's senior male relatives, bride's family.

Key elements

  • Arabic coffee, dates, family discussion.
Source: remitly.com

Wedding day

Katb Al-Kitab(Katb Al-Kitab / Milkah / Nikah)

كتب الكتاب / ملكة / نكاح
Mandatory

The legal and religious marriage contract signing, presided over by an imam, making the couple officially married under Islamic law.

Timing: Typically on the wedding day, or before the main festivities.Who takes part: Couple, imam, fathers of both families, two witnesses from each side.

Key elements

  • Signed marriage contract, mahr (dowry) terms, Quranic recitation (Fatiha).
Source: remitly.com

Main Festivities(Hiflat-Al-Zaffaf)

حفلة الزفاف
Mandatory

A grand celebration after the Katb Al-Kitab, featuring gender-segregated halls, music, dancing, and a lavish feast.

Timing: Typically from 10 PM to 4-5 AM on the wedding night.Who takes part: Bride, groom, families, guests (segregated by gender).

Key elements

  • Kosha (decorated stage), music, dancing, multi-tiered cake, buffet, traditional attire.
Source: remitly.com

Zaffa

زفة
Common

A musical parade announcing the arrival of the bride and groom, often featuring traditional music and dance.

Timing: During the main festivities, often before the couple's entrance.Who takes part: Bride, groom, musicians, dancers, family, guests.

Key elements

  • Music (drums, mizmar), dancing, sometimes sword dances.
Source: remitly.com

Islamic/Arab (Hijazi region)

Wedding day

Almezmar

المزمار
Common

A stick dance performed by men, involving two rows clapping and chanting, with two performers twirling large sticks in the center. Accompanied by the mizmar wind instrument.

Timing: During the men's celebration or accompanying the Zaffa procession.Who takes part: 15-100 male practitioners.

Key elements

  • Long white garments, large sticks, mizmar (wind instrument).
Source: houseofsaud.com

Islamic/Arab (Hijazi, Southern, Eastern Province)

Pre-wedding

Henna Night(Laylat al-Henna / Ghumra / Samra Night)

ليلة الحناء / غمرة
Common

An exclusively female gathering where intricate henna designs are applied to the bride's hands and feet, accompanied by music, food, and dancing.

Timing: One to two weeks before the wedding.Who takes part: Bride, female relatives, female friends, professional henna artist, female musicians.

Key elements

  • Henna designs, music, food, dancing, festive attire.
Source: remitly.com

Islamic/Arab (Najdi region)

Wedding day

Ardha Alnajdiyah

العرضة النجدية
Common

A traditional sword dance performed by men, involving two rows facing each other, chanting poetry, and rhythmic movements with swords and drums.

Timing: During the men's celebration at the wedding reception.Who takes part: Males of all ages and social statuses.

Key elements

  • Light swords, large and small drums, traditional attire (thobe, ghutra).
Source: ich.unesco.org

Post-wedding

Tehwal

تهوال
Common

A dinner party hosted at the groom's house the day after the wedding to welcome the bride into her new home.

Timing: The day after the wedding.Who takes part: Groom, bride, guests.

Key elements

  • Lavish meal, hospitality.
Source: houseofsaud.com

Zowarah

زوارة
Common

A celebration held after the newlyweds return from their honeymoon, welcoming them back to the community.

Timing: After the honeymoon.Who takes part: Couple, families, community.

Key elements

  • Festivities, gathering.
Source: houseofsaud.com

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