Sweden Wedding Traditions & Ceremonies
A researched guide to 20 traditional wedding ceremonies from 4 cultural traditions in Sweden.
General Swedish
Pre-wedding
Ring Exchange (Engagement)
Traditionally, both partners exchange plain gold engagement rings.
Key elements
- Plain gold rings
Wearing Red Superstition
A historical belief that wearing red signified an affair with the groom, now mostly a joke.
Key elements
- Red attire
Wedding day
Processional
Bride and groom walk down the aisle together, symbolizing free will in marriage.
Key elements
- Couple walks together
Ring Exchange (Wedding)
The bride receives a second, more elaborate ring for the marriage.
Key elements
- Elaborate ring, often with stones
Wedding Attire
Grooms wear black suits/tuxedos, brides wear white dresses. Some churches offer a tiara.
Key elements
- Black suits, white dresses, church tiara
Wedding Music (Civil)
Civil ceremonies are brief and non-religious, allowing couples freedom in music choice.
Key elements
- Music of choice
Reception
Bridal Toast(Brudskål)
The reception begins with a bridal toast, often made by the bride's father.
Key elements
- Champagne, speech
Reception Menu
A three-course meal with fish starters, meat main course, and berry-based desserts.
Key elements
- Fish starters, meat, berry desserts
Toastmaster
A pivotal role introducing speakers, guiding guests, and announcing key events during the reception.
Key elements
- Speeches, announcements, first dance
General Swedish (Christian Lutheran)
Wedding day
Wedding Music (Church)
Church weddings are more elaborate with entering music, hymns, solo songs, and exit music.
Key elements
- Entering music, hymns, solo songs, exit music
Sami
Pre-wedding
Sami Courting and Gifts
Historically, men would give gifts like silver, liquor, or food to a woman they intended to marry.
Key elements
- Silver, liquor, food
Wedding day
Gákti (Traditional Costume)(Gákti / Kolt)
Traditional costume worn by both bride and groom, with details indicating status and origin.
Key elements
- Leather, sinews, wool, silk, velvet, specific colors/patterns
Sami Bridal Attire
Bride wears multiple scarves, silver brooches, and a bridal crown with silk ribbons.
Key elements
- Scarves, silver brooches, bridal crown with ribbons
Sami Groom's Attire
Groom wears a long white scarf crossed over his chest.
Key elements
- Long white scarf
Reindeer as Gifts/Dowry
Couple would receive reindeer as presents or as part of the wife's dowry.
Key elements
- Reindeer
Reception
Bidos (Sami Soup)(Bidos)
A traditional Sami soup, always served at Sami weddings.
Key elements
- Reindeer meat soup
Large Sami Celebrations
Traditional Sami weddings can involve over a thousand guests and last for several days.
Key elements
- Large gathering, multi-day event
Syrian Christian
Reception
Davul and Zurna
Drum and flute players present to encourage dancing, appearing at the ceremony and reception.
Key elements
- Drums, flutes, dancing
Syrian Christian Celebrations
Exuberant celebrations characterized by dancing, music, bright colors, and food.
Key elements
- Dancing, music, bright colors, food
Zhagareet (Ululation)(Zhagareet)
A traditional vocal expression by women, popular in Middle Eastern culture, present at the wedding.
Key elements
- Ululation
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