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Wedding Traditions

Bolivia Wedding Traditions & Ceremonies

A researched guide to 15 traditional wedding ceremonies from 6 cultural traditions in Bolivia.

Aymara (Indigenous, blended with Catholic influences)

Pre-wedding

Hand Request(Irpaqa)

Mandatory

A formal request for the young woman's hand in marriage, following the elopement or courtship phase.

Timing: After Irpantasiria or courtship, before co-habitation.Who takes part: Young couple, their parents.

Key elements

  • Formal discussion and agreement between families.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Ramada Setup and Altar Preparation(Ramada (hut))

Mandatory

Relatives and community members set up a hut (Ramada) adorned with eucalyptus branches and white flowers, with a central altar for the couple.

Timing: Some days before the wedding celebration.Who takes part: Couple's relatives, community members.

Key elements

  • Eucalyptus branches, white flowers (symbolizing purity), large table (altar), white cloth, two white flags (representing bride and groom).
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Co-habitation(Sirwisiña)

Common

A period of co-habitation that precedes the official marriage ceremony, allowing the couple to live together before formalizing their union.

Timing: After Irpaqa, before Jaqichasiwi.Who takes part: Young couple.

Key elements

  • Living together as a couple.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Elopement / Stealing Away(Irpantasiria)

Common

The young man 'steals' the young woman away, and they disappear for a couple of days, signifying their falling in love and commitment.

Timing: After the falling in love phase, before formal requests.Who takes part: Young man (wayna), young woman (tawaqo).

Key elements

  • Temporary disappearance of the couple.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Wedding day

Prayers to Guardian Beings

Mandatory

At dawn on the wedding day, godfathers and parents pray to guardian beings (achachilas, uywiris, kuntur mamani, pachamama, ispallas) for the couple's happiness, making offerings of alcohol and coca.

Timing: Dawn of the wedding day.Who takes part: Godfathers (jach'a irpiri), parents of the groom and bride.

Key elements

  • Prayers, offerings of alcohol and coca.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Reception

Official Marriage Ceremony(Jaqichasiwi)

Mandatory

The main wedding rite held in a temple, followed by three days of celebrations, including gift-giving and blessings from parents.

Timing: On the wedding day, followed by two more days of celebration.Who takes part: Newlyweds, relatives, authorities, community members, band.

Key elements

  • Temple ceremony, music, dancing, gift-giving (to groom on day 1, to bride on day 2), blessings from parents.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Bolivian (Catholic, common among Mestizo and urban families)

Wedding day

Catholic Ceremony

Common

A traditional Catholic church wedding mass with vows, ring exchange, and priestly blessing.

Timing: On the wedding day.Who takes part: Couple, priest, godparents, family, guests.

Key elements

  • Traditional vows, ring exchange, priestly blessing, modest attire.
Source: bolenbliss.com

Bolivian (Indigenous, where practiced)

Wedding day

Indigenous Blessings

Optional

Couples may participate in Indigenous blessing rituals, including offerings to Pachamama, ritual prayers, and symbolic gestures acknowledging ancestors.

Timing: On the wedding day, often after a Catholic ceremony.Who takes part: Couple, shaman/elder, family.

Key elements

  • Offerings to Pachamama, prayers in Aymara or Quechua, coca leaves.
Source: bolenbliss.com

Bolivian (Legal Requirement)

Pre-wedding

Civil Marriage Registration(Registro Civil)

Mandatory

Establishes the legal union through municipal authorities.

Timing: Before or alongside any religious ceremony.Who takes part: Couple, municipal authorities, witnesses.

Key elements

  • Valid identification, birth certificates, proof of marital status.
Source: bolenbliss.com

Quechua (Catholic influence)

Wedding day

Official Church Celebration

Mandatory

The couple's marriage is formalized by a priest in a parish, followed by community celebrations.

Timing: On the wedding day, after a long preparation period (may be a year or two after the formal request).Who takes part: Young couple, godparents, relatives, priest, community members.

Key elements

  • Wedding dresses, parish setting, formalization by priest, singing and dancing to charango music.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Quechua (Indigenous, blended with Catholic influences)

Pre-wedding

Coca Chewing and Libation(Akulliku (coca chewing), Ch'alla (libation))

Mandatory

Families chew coca leaves together for dialogue and agreements, followed by a libation (ch'alla) to honor Pachamama.

Timing: During the meeting where the young man formally asks for the girl's hand.Who takes part: Both families, young couple.

Key elements

  • Coca leaves, chicha (corn liquor), spilling chicha on the floor, toasting, ritual of forgiveness, fraternal embrace.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Coca Leaf Reading

Mandatory

A wise man or shaman reads coca leaves to predict the teenager's personality and future partner, offering suggestions for marriage.

Timing: During adolescence (15-17 years old), often on a festive night like San Juan.Who takes part: Teenager (kneeling), wise man/shaman, parents.

Key elements

  • Coca leaves, invocation of spirits (ajayus, achachilas), kneeling posture.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Verbal Commitment & Formal Request for Bride's Hand

Mandatory

The young man informs his parents of his interest, and if approved, parents give their word to the girl's family. Later, the young man, with his parents, formally asks for the girl's hand.

Timing: Second stage after courting; third stage after a year or more when ready for marriage.Who takes part: Young man, young girl, both sets of parents.

Key elements

  • Parental approval, formal visit, dialogue, agreements.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Reception

Post-Wedding Thank You Libation(Ch'allachiku)

Mandatory

The newlyweds perform a ch'alla to thank their godfathers and all who collaborated in the wedding celebration.

Timing: Day 4 of the multi-day wedding celebration.Who takes part: Newlyweds, godfathers, collaborators.

Key elements

  • Ch'alla (libation), expression of gratitude.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

Gift Giving and Counting

Common

Relatives and friends bring various gifts (animals, tools, money) to the couple, which are later counted by godfathers.

Timing: Day 2 and Day 3 of the multi-day wedding celebration.Who takes part: Newlyweds, relatives, friends, godfathers.

Key elements

  • Gifts (sheep, chickens, pigs, llamas, work tools, pots, aguayos, ponchos, money), counting of gifts.
Source: combonimissionaries.co.uk

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